(ENG/中文/FR SUB) A Lack of Social Skills 제978회 사회성이 부족합니다
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A Lack of Social Skills<br />
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I'm a university student in my final year. My concern is that I have poor social skills. And because of this, I was bullied during primary school. I found relief in the hopes that things will be resolved when I grow up. However, nothing has changed. I suffered so much that, during junior school I even considered ending my life. But I know I shouldn't end my life because of those kids. So instead, I tried to resolve the issue and seek for the solutions. But I feel like there's something wrong with me.<br />
So I feel ashamed. And at the same time, I want to interact and socialize with people. So I always try to approach people. But I'm not sure how to deal with them. I even tried to replace my social needs,<br />
which led me to an eating disorder. So I tried to occupy myself with food. But that obviously didn't work out. I am doing better these days, and carrying on with my daily life. But I still feel incapable.<br />
In fact, I only have a few experiences of holding up a proper conversation. As I age, I have to take part in society. This has been such a huge concern for me for a very long time. So I would like to hear your<br />
thoughts on this.<br />
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제978회 사회성이 부족합니다. <br />
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"저는 대학교 3학년에 진학 중인 졸업반 학생입니다. 저는 사회성이 너무 결여되었다는 것이 고민입니다. 이런 단점 때문에 초등학교 때 왕따를 당했고, 나중에 어른이 되면 나아질 것이라고 위안했는데 달라지지가 않는 것 같아요. 너무 힘들어서 중학교 때는 한면 안되는 생각까지도 했었습니다. 그런 애들 때문에 제가 그렇게 되기에는 제가 너무 소중하잖아요. 문제의 원인이 저한테 있는 것 같아서 자꾸 자괴감도 듭니다. 제가 어떻게 사람을 대해야 할지 잘 모르겠어요. 작년에는 섭식 장애에 걸리고, 지금 좀 많이 나아져서 생활도 잘하고 있는데, 기본적으로 제가 사람을 대면했을 때 원할하게 길게 대화를 한 적이 몇 번 없는 것 같아요. 사회생활도 해야 할텐데, 스님의 답을 듣고 싶습니다." <br />
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(ENG/中文/FR SUB) A Lack of Social Skills 제978회 사회성이 부족합니다
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(ENG/中文/FR SUB) A Lack of Social Skills 제978회 사회성이 부족합니다
I'm a university student in my final year. My concern is that I have poor social skills. And because of this, I was bullied during primary school. I found relief in the hopes that things will be resolved when I grow up. However, nothing has changed. I suffered so much that, during junior school I even considered ending my life. But I know I shouldn't end my life because of those kids. So instead, I tried to resolve the issue and seek for the solutions. But I feel like there's something wrong with me.
So I feel ashamed. And at the same time, I want to interact and socialize with people. So I always try to approach people. But I'm not sure how to deal with them. I even tried to replace my social needs,
which led me to an eating disorder. So I tried to occupy myself with food. But that obviously didn't work out. I am doing better these days, and carrying on with my daily life. But I still feel incapable.
In fact, I only have a few experiences of holding up a proper conversation. As I age, I have to take part in society. This has been such a huge concern for me for a very long time. So I would like to hear your
thoughts on this.
제978회 사회성이 부족합니다.
"저는 대학교 3학년에 진학 중인 졸업반 학생입니다. 저는 사회성이 너무 결여되었다는 것이 고민입니다. 이런 단점 때문에 초등학교 때 왕따를 당했고, 나중에 어른이 되면 나아질 것이라고 위안했는데 달라지지가 않는 것 같아요. 너무 힘들어서 중학교 때는 한면 안되는 생각까지도 했었습니다. 그런 애들 때문에 제가 그렇게 되기에는 제가 너무 소중하잖아요. 문제의 원인이 저한테 있는 것 같아서 자꾸 자괴감도 듭니다. 제가 어떻게 사람을 대해야 할지 잘 모르겠어요. 작년에는 섭식 장애에 걸리고, 지금 좀 많이 나아져서 생활도 잘하고 있는데, 기본적으로 제가 사람을 대면했을 때 원할하게 길게 대화를 한 적이 몇 번 없는 것 같아요. 사회생활도 해야 할텐데, 스님의 답을 듣고 싶습니다."
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